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The “Pros and Cons” List That Could Save You From Heartbreak (and Regret)
When I was younger, I used to write “PROs and CONs” papers. If I had a situation — like a crush — I would grab a piece of scrap paper, draw a line down the middle, and write: PROs on one side. CONs on the other. Then I would start listing everything out. At the time, it felt simple.Almost silly. But I learned something very important. If you aren’t doing it honestly — simply because you really want the situation or person to be a pro — it doesn’t end well. When You Like Som
Aly Bealey
Feb 193 min read


Stop Telling Girls They Can Be Anything — Start Teaching Them How
We tell girls all the time: “You can be anything you want.” And that’s beautiful. But here’s the problem. We don’t always teach them how . Telling a girl she can be a doctor, a lawyer, an engineer, a mechanic, a business owner, or a stay-at-home mom is empowering. But empowerment without tools turns into confusion. And confusion turns into procrastination.Into scrolling.Into “bed rotting.”Into waking up at noon and wondering why life feels overwhelming. You can be anything. B
Aly Bealey
Feb 193 min read
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